I've visited pretty regularly for about seven or eight months but I tend to be fairly naive (maybe semi-intentionally) and frequently miss some of the group dynamics going on around me. I also am not interested in opening old wounds that aren't fully healed. Feel free to ignore me.
I've noticed cycling in quality. That's why I post in about 4 or 5 other places. Things go up and down. Especially with a large forum. Not every one can be cozy like this one.